PLEASE READ THESE TERMS:Thursday, November 30, 2006
Discovering Love
Have you ever been in love? I have. I am certainly not referring to the 'I-am-so-crazy-for-him-that-I-have-to-call-him-100-times-a-day' sort of girlfriend. NOT that kind of love for sure. Tsk.
I am talking about the sort of love where your Man and you can connect and feel for one another at a deep level that is being shared in all the intense and most generous ways that you can ever imagine.
Man has commitment problems/probia. How do you actually make him share his affection and have deeper feelings for you?
The reality is, not many have the real-world idea of how love is encouraged, begins, evolves, and sometimes fades away. We only understand how it makes us feel and that we simply want it.
We want love. We yearn for it. We hope for it.
As cynical as it can get, I feel that most people react to the other person in their love life is more like an "emotional stop light" than anything else. As in?
Stop. (red)
Slow down or speed up. (yellow)
Go. (green)
To all my readers, please be clear that this is not how our feelings and emotions are wired. When it comes to those love issues, it simply has a complex effect on our minds and bodies. But there's a whole lot more of it that you have to individually discover by yourself and probably develop self-actualization.
Take time to discover what love is to our minds and bodies. Gals! Go find out how men perceive and experience love. In this way, your odds of success for happiness and fulfillment will be doubled!
Sometimes, we really have to sit down, lie back, and think through things. There is nothing good about rushing into doing something, and ended up regretting your own actions.
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Monday, November 27, 2006
Rebound Relationships
After the breakup with the guy/gal that you love, you enter into a rebound relationship to put a band aid to your own misery. That is absolutely wrong. To me, it is deemed as a selfish act. If you do that, you ought to be condemned, my dear girls and guys.
You are merely hurting your new partner. Can you imagine if he/she knows that you are simply taking him/her as a replacement to your ex-lover? Do you know the extent of hurt that you will be inputing in him/her? Have you wondered how crashing it will be for his/her self-confidence level?
Just for your own benefit, just to ease yourself from the pain... You start to get involved with someone new?? Take note: It is counterproductive. This means that the new lover will not be able to do magic and make all your pain disappear. He/she can soothe it for you till you are completing your 'emotional recovery process' or are completely healed from the heartache. And by then, you will have a new problem - What to do with this guy/girl that you have just gotten involved with?
Rebound relationships hardly last long. So my dear readers, please be careful to step into a relationship with someone that you know he/she had just broken off with his/her Special One. You never know the real reason to the breakup. The gal may be the one that initiated the breakup, but she may stepped into a rebound relationship so that she can forget her boyfriend. Even if it is a mutual agreement for a breakup, there are chances that one party (or both even!) may get into a rebound relationship.
So don't be that selfish bitch or asshole. Don't make your unhappiness to somebody else's unhappiness. Live your own life as it is. Don't make the lives of others worse, just because you ain't having a good time after a break-up. Instead, try to wake up from the break-up and prove yourself worthy... No point being self-deluded.
Don't say that my words are harsh. In this blog, I will say nothing but my utmost honest opinions. Flame me all you want, I don't care.
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Sunday, November 26, 2006
Attraction
Title: Attraction
Mood: Longing For Some1
A lot of women seem to think that ATTRACTION is when one person wants what another person has. Some think of ATTRACTION as the result of being good-looking or otherwise "attractive". In fact, I think alot of people confuse ATTRACTION with"being attractive".
When the concept of ATTRACTION comes intro my mind, I thought of it as an EMOTION. In other words, ATTRACTION is a FEELING that we either feel, or we don't. And there's not much of anything at all in between when it comes to a man being at a place where he's ready to be open, loving and COMMITTED with a woman... long term.
It seems to me that attraction is actually more of a COMBINATION of powerful experiences and beliefs that come together to form a very, very special and all powerful SUPER-EMOTION. However you think about it, there is a process that happens between men and women that keeps them connecting - to get together both physically and emotionally in relationships.
'I mean really, the human form can be beautiful in so many different ways, I just don't see a need to limit my attraction to that beauty.' -unknown
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Thoughts of Love
Title: Thoughts Of Love
Mood: Excited
- True Love -
Simple word that is difficult to be obtained by many.
By reading this blog created by Feliza Ong, you will be brought onto a journey. This journey will take you into her mind and heart, where Feliza will reveal her thoughts and views on anything pertaining to LOVE. Her fragile self will be shown to her readers. Don't break her heart.
- Love makes or breaks a person -
What do you want it to do to YOU...
And your LIFE?
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