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Monday, November 27, 2006

Rebound Relationships

After the breakup with the guy/gal that you love, you enter into a rebound relationship to put a band aid to your own misery. That is absolutely wrong. To me, it is deemed as a selfish act. If you do that, you ought to be condemned, my dear girls and guys.

You are merely hurting your new partner. Can you imagine if he/she knows that you are simply taking him/her as a replacement to your ex-lover? Do you know the extent of hurt that you will be inputing in him/her? Have you wondered how crashing it will be for his/her self-confidence level?

Just for your own benefit, just to ease yourself from the pain... You start to get involved with someone new?? Take note: It is counterproductive. This means that the new lover will not be able to do magic and make all your pain disappear. He/she can soothe it for you till you are completing your 'emotional recovery process' or are completely healed from the heartache. And by then, you will have a new problem - What to do with this guy/girl that you have just gotten involved with?

Rebound relationships hardly last long. So my dear readers, please be careful to step into a relationship with someone that you know he/she had just broken off with his/her Special One. You never know the real reason to the breakup. The gal may be the one that initiated the breakup, but she may stepped into a rebound relationship so that she can forget her boyfriend. Even if it is a mutual agreement for a breakup, there are chances that one party (or both even!) may get into a rebound relationship.

So don't be that selfish bitch or asshole. Don't make your unhappiness to somebody else's unhappiness. Live your own life as it is. Don't make the lives of others worse, just because you ain't having a good time after a break-up. Instead, try to wake up from the break-up and prove yourself worthy... No point being self-deluded.

Don't say that my words are harsh. In this blog, I will say nothing but my utmost honest opinions. Flame me all you want, I don't care.



:It Started With a 'Hi': 11/27/2006 10:56:00 PM
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hmm...
i agree with what you said...
to me... they are just finding companion... cuz they feel weird being alone and hard to kick the habit of having someone that is there when they need them...

We must learn from the mistake we made after the breakup and try be a better person... or maybe the best after all...

Nobody

By Anonymous Anonymous, at Tue Nov 28, 02:05:00 AM 2006  

Feliz.
RESPECT. Respect you.
good post.
strong and direct on how wrong it can be to be on rebound.
i was hurt from such a relationship before. it sucks.

By Anonymous Anonymous, at Tue Nov 28, 01:59:00 PM 2006  

Hey...

What about this? The guy was on a rebound with this girl and she cared for him, healed him back emotionally, and he was touched and eventually fell for her love.

=)

By Blogger LAH, at Tue Nov 28, 07:22:00 PM 2006  

lucas >-> lah
that would be good.

By Anonymous Anonymous, at Wed Nov 29, 11:11:00 AM 2006  

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