PLEASE READ THESE TERMS:Tuesday, December 05, 2006
What....???
What if a guy tells you that he likes you? But you arent ready to step into a new relationship with him? Fearing that it may be a rebound relationship... Even though you know you no longer have any feelings for your ex? Or that you think that you cant stand being lonely and you may go into this new relationship with the guy?
Thats a wrong reason to get attached! No way you can do that!
But what if he tells you that he is attracted to you and wants to know you better? And you fear that you will start developing feelings for him? You were scarred before, recently hurt somemore. You daren't step into another relationship for fear of having your heart broken....
What would you do???
What if the guy does not make much moves to express his feelings for you? If he starts being passive in the sense that he is not as agressive as before? What if you think he is nice and may want to know him better but irks always having to be the one who asks him out? Since he thinks that you are always so busy and dares not ask you out? (Is he a coward or not being pro-active enough??)
And what if... What if..... What if I am the one that the guy so-called likes?
What should I do?
I would simply tell myself...
"My dear Feliza... You have a loooong way to go.
Open your farking eyes big and look for the one that matches you most and is able to accomodate to your set of thinking and lifestyle.
Don't settle for the Mr Nice Guy.
There's not only ONE Mr Nice Guy in the world.
If God loves you and thinks you deserve a good guy....
You will meet another Mr Nice Guy in future.
So for now, think before you act on anything.
Dun let loneliness, envy, lack of security and care to tempt you!
Don't get swayed by mushy words and loving acts!
You know the guys do that to woo you...
And they stop once they get you....
Don't let them have this chance to do that to you.
For you are Feliza the GREAT!!!
2mments
there are a lot of ans to ur qns, its situation dependent...
e guy mayb giving you tyme to sort ur feeling out... n dats a reason for him being passive...
he's seeking assurance when he told you he likes you... which means your ans to him will tell him something like whather he should be passive or aggressive... n it will tell him whether you are ready to step into a relationship...
he will only be aggressive at the right moment when you least expected it...haha...
n nice guys don usually gets the last laugh...
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Tue Dec 05, 04:52:00 AM 2006
True love.. waits
By , at
Tue Dec 05, 02:34:00 PM 2006